I’m Sara Bybee Fisk, Master Certified Coach and Teacher.
People Pleasing is the plague of womanhood.
How do I know?
Because for years, I spent so much time placating and pretending that I hardly knew who I was or what I wanted. My default mode was to defer to other’s needs and wants and call it being a “good” mom/wife/friend/employee.
And, I was struggling.
Resentment bubbled just beneath the surface of my “it’s fine” smile.
I felt stuck- I wanted to be loving and helpful, but that felt like it was costing me more and more each day.
Learning how to stop people pleasing is still an on-going evolution for me, but my life looks completely different today.
I’ve navigated leaving the high-demand religion I was raised in, disappointing my parents and shocking my friends, losing many of them in the process.
I’ve learned to speak up for my needs and wants, and re-negotiated the strict gender roles I lived with my husband for the first 20 years of our marriage, transforming it into a truly equitable partnership.
I’ve asked for and received higher paying wages, learned to set and hold boundaries and spoken out about difficult topics that would’ve rendered me silent or stammering before.
I’ve remodeled relationships that I wanted to keep, ended relationships that weren’t working and created new relationships that are loving and supportive that have brought me so much joy.
And the thing I’m most proud of- I have a generous, respectful, secure relationship with myself and I love being me in the world.
Having worked with hundreds of clients over 5 years, I know exactly how to teach you to do this too.
I’m the Stop People Pleasing Coach and it would be my honor to share what I’ve learned with you and show you how to use it in your transformation.